study abroad diaries
rebecca newman
In Fall 2023, I set off on a life-changing journey to study abroad at Sciences Po in Menton, a dreamy little French town by the sea. There weren’t many Americans — actually, there weren’t even many exchange students — so I embarked on this completely on my own in a place full of unfamiliar faces and languages. Living solo in a cozy studio apartment, every day felt like an adventure, filled with new friends, unexpected lessons, lots of side adventures, and plenty of growing pains. This memoir is my honest, still-unfolding story of how I went abroad knowing nobody and came back knowing myself.
table of contents
prologue
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part one: september
chapter one ................... the beginning
chapter two ................... local living
chapter three ................... the visitors
part two : october
chapter four ..................
chapter five ..................
chapter six ..................
chapter seven ..................
part three : november
chapter eight ..................
chapter nine ..................
chapter ten ..................
chapter eleven ..................
part four : december
chapter twelve ..................
chapter thirteen ..................
chapter fourteen ..................
chapter fifteen ..................
prologue
It's 4 am, and the dim glow of the fraternity house is the backdrop to my final moments in Philadelphia. Surrounded by the familiar faces of my friends, we delve into profound conversations about the meaning of life, intertwined with the playful twists of a never-have-I-ever game. The night, initially framed as a "bon voyage" going away party, had kicked off at Drexel park with laughter, flowing dresses, and an aura of happiness.
As the hours passed, my best friends and I ventured out into the city, navigating the unknown together. The thought of spending the next four months without them loomed over me like a shadow. Questions plagued my mind – would we remain friends? How would we change individually and collectively during my absence? The "what ifs" echoed in the recesses of my thoughts, creating a sense of uncertainty.
For the first time in my life, I had found my tribe, my people. Yet, beneath the surface, a neurotic mindset fueled my emotions, a mix of fear and nervousness as I stood on the precipice of leaving behind the comfort of this life for an entirely new chapter.
part one
September
chapter one
the beginning
As my parents' car approaches JFK Airport in New York, a disorienting dizziness settles over me. Nothing feels real, and for someone who despises ambiguity like myself, this entire experience embodies that very quality. Rolling my bag towards the flight, I discover it's a few pounds overweight. My mom and I hastily rearrange some items into a pillowcase until, after several attempts, I'm finally ready. Checking in my bag, I see my mom following me through security. We walk together, waving, and the gravity of the moment hits me – I can't believe this is actually happening. I'm in shock. I realize I'm entirely on my own, responsible for myself. I am free.
And suddenly, I find myself on the plane to Nice, engaging in conversation with a well-traveled French man whose words ignite excitement for the journey ahead. The in-flight meal disappoints, but the journey is uneventful. I watched two movies and timidly utter my first French word, "merci."
Upon arriving in Nice, the exit signs now read "sortie." Bag check proceeds as planned, but when I check WhatsApp for my driver, I receive a call from a French number. The driver mistakenly drove to Menton, my new hometown, instead of the airport. A new driver is sent, and I anxiously wait, fearing pickpockets in a sea of perceived danger.
The new driver arrives, and despite texting, we struggle to find each other. Exhausted and disoriented, I attempt to seek help from airport workers but am paralyzed by fear of speaking French. Lost, stressed, and fatigued, I finally locate the driver, settling into the car. As we drive, I watch the landscape unfold – mountains, small cars, tunnels, houses, ocean – everything feels magical, akin to a scene from "Petite Nicolas."
Entering my new hometown, the first thing catching my eye is McDonald's. Although I usually don't fancy it, at that moment, I set a peculiar goal to try McDonald's in every country, a strange tether to home.
The car drops me off at my temporary abode, the Ibis Budget hotel. Maneuvering through the front desk with the help of a man, I sign in, receive my key, and make my way to the room. A bunk bed and a balcony overlooking the town and ocean greet me – it's enchanting. Closing the shades, I succumb to a much-needed 6-hour nap.
Waking up hours later, I decide it's time for a shower. The water head is surprisingly short, and I struggle to adjust it. To this day, I'm unsure if it was a culture shock moment or if I simply didn't know how to change it. Nonetheless, I'm ready to explore, despite feeling a mix of hunger and nerves – my first independent venture since arriving.
After a quick 20-minute research session on easy places to eat, I discover a pizza place conveniently located next door. It's already dark as I leave my room to order. Reading the menu and placing my order, I can't help but feel a bit self-conscious about my English. However, I start using simple French phrases like bonjour, merci, and au revoir. The pizza shop, a takeaway outdoor joint, keeps me in suspense about when my food will be ready. With my limited understanding of their language, I plug in my headphones and hope for the best. The worker eventually brings my pizza, and gratitude washes over me.
The town beckons, and I heed its call. Walking along the boardwalk, I absorb the tranquil atmosphere. Everyone seems content, making Menton the pearl of France. Stars twinkle overhead, ocean waves crash against the rocks, and restaurants buzz with wine-induced chatter. Children giggle along the beach while grown-ups stroll hand in hand.
My mother had warned me that this town might be a sleeper, but as I observe life here, I know I made the right decision. It's the France magic I've been searching for.
I perch on the rocks in the middle of the ocean, savoring my pizza and watching the town unfold like a movie. The full moon illuminates the entire scene – the beautiful old town, the lights, kids jumping on a trampoline, and, if I look closely, Italy in the distance. Scooters zip through the streets, reminiscent of scenes from the movies.
Returning to the hotel, I succumb to a 15-hour nap as jet lag sets in. Determined to interact with someone, I message the exchange chat on WhatsApp, and two girls, Maya and Pao, respond. We text, get excited, and eventually agree to meet up. Nervous but eager, I wander over to our meeting spot. Lost and unsure, a girl calls my name. "Are you Becca? Hi, I'm Pao!" We hug, immediately launching into chatter. Both equally nervous, it feels comforting to have someone with me. After finding Maya, we head to a restaurant for dinner and wine. Maya shares a tip: always call the bathroom the toilet, or they might lead you to a laundry room. The three of us giggle all night, realizing we get along remarkably well.
Someone drops a message in the main school chat that a bunch of people are hanging out at the beach. After indulging in a delicious gnocchi dinner, we decide to join the party. The atmosphere feels like freshman year all over again as everyone introduces themselves – a fascinating mix of first-year students from different corners of the globe. Pao from Mexico, Maya from Canada, and a diverse range of new acquaintances hailing from Europe to the Middle East and Asia.
As we chat, some folks mention heading to a girl named Anna's house. Maya, Pao, and I decide to tag along. The group is lively, and it feels like we're embarking on a town exploration. Arriving at Anna's house, we hang on her balcony, sprawl out on the floor, and just chill. I navigate between different groups, absorbing information and conversation, unsure of how I come across as the lone American in the room. As the night winds down, Maya, Dan, and I head home in the rain. Dan bids farewell, and Maya shares a bit about him, marking him as an important character in our evolving storyline. We get soaked, but I don't mind – my favorite quote by Bob Marley echoes in my mind: "Some people feel the rain, others just get wet." Maya's house turns out to be right next to my hotel, and we're grateful to walk together for the upcoming integration week activities.
The next morning, Maya and I walk to Sciences Po, our school, for outdoor events. People attend seminars, but nothing piques my interest, so I decide to focus on practical tasks like getting my French sim card. Pao joins, and we grab lunch during siesta hours, settling for a Nutella pizza and a cheese pizza at a pizza place. Later, we stroll along the beach, cut short by the rain, and prepare for the evening event. First, a school rally, complete with guidelines and forced school spirit, followed by dancing and socializing outside, where we connect with more exchange friends.
Dan, Pao, Maya, and I form a little group, and the next day we meet up at the beach before attending mandatory consent talks. Afterward, Maya and I enjoy bruschetta along the beach, explore the old city, buy limoncello, and hang out by the beach. Despite feeling closer to Pao and Maya separately, I attribute it to overthinking. Throughout the day, I continue meeting new people, and we end up bar-hopping and drinking along the beach at night, experiencing the unique vibes of Le Retro, the college bar.
The following day, I share lunch with Maya and Dan, getting to know him better. We head to the beach for a swim and participate in Sciences Po's panhellenic games, enduring the cringey atmosphere for the sake of making friends. Maya and I explore the rocks with three other exchange students, discovering a hidden cat among them. We connect with the girls, including Ifa from London, and decide to invite her to join our upcoming adventures.
I round off the day with pizza for dinner, opting for a chill evening to reset before the busy weekend. With so many new experiences, I want to ensure I process everything happening around me.
The next day unfolds as I wake up and head to the club fair on the Sciences Po campus with my friends. Eager to immerse myself in campus life, I sign up for numerous clubs, though uncertainty lingers about my actual level of involvement. Post-fair, we indulge in a refreshing beach swim and attend a seminar on stereotypes, the teaching approach leaving me unimpressed.
Day 6 along the French Riviera marks the point where the reality of living abroad begins to settle in my mind. My routine is now a blend of school activities, daytime beach swims, and nighttime beach hangouts, complemented by plenty of limoncello and budget-friendly wine. Dinner becomes a convivial affair with my newfound ifam (international family), where we engage in conversations, share laughter, sip wine, and occasionally indulge in cigarettes. Participating in school integration activities becomes a nightly ritual, providing opportunities to mingle and make connections at the parties.
One memorable evening with Maya and her friend leads me to encounter a group of boys I initially thought were from my school. We strike up a conversation, only to discover they are holidaymakers in Menton. Pao, Dan, and Dareen join in, and we spend the night together, culminating in a surreal skinny-dipping escapade. The night concludes with a leisurely stroll to their holiday house in the charming old town near Dan's residence.
The following morning, I wake up in Pao's bed, having experienced my first slumber party since my move. Pao and I trek back to my house, where both she and Dan assist in moving me out of the hotel. We board a bus with all my luggage, headed to my new two-floor studio apartment with a balcony, piano, kitchen, laundry, couch, and TV. The sheer incredibility of the place strikes me – for the prices I'm paying, I could only secure the dingiest spot in Manhattan or a typical university housing arrangement with roommates in Philadelphia.
Pao departs, leaving Dan and me to bask in the novelty of my new home. We cook pasta, share cigarettes on the balcony, and revel in the quintessential South of France summer vibe. Later, friends gather for pre-gaming at my place, a first-time experience of being the hosting house that I thoroughly enjoy. The night unfolds with a beach party at Bastion, introducing me to even more people and providing an unforgettable, almost surreal experience where nothing feels real yet everything feels undeniably tangible.
Lessons learned:
Your surroundings play a pivotal role in shaping your identity. Every time you step into a new place or encounter new people, be prepared for growth and the opportunity to redefine yourself.
Communication extends far beyond the spoken word. It's a nuanced interplay of gestures, expressions, and unspoken cues. To truly understand, open your eyes wide to perceive the subtle languages that exist beyond the audible.
Approach every situation with an open mind, extending kindness not only to others but also to yourself. Combine this with self-awareness and confidence, and you'll find an irresistible magnetism drawing people towards you.
chapter two
local living
September unfolds in the South of France, casting a new and shiny allure as I navigate the nuances of my fresh surroundings and embrace newfound friendships. The month becomes a montage of travels along the enchanting French and Italian Mediterranean coast, a rhythm that weaves seamlessly through my class schedule.
One day, after classes, Pao, Maya, and I rendezvous on a train bound for Saint-Jean Cap Ferrat. After a breezy twenty-minute ride, we disembark and make our way to the bus stop that promises to transport us to the heart of this opulent, tranquil town. Upon reaching the beach, we find the sand teeming with activity. Opting for a perch on the rocks along the shore, we dive into a world of gossip, photos, wine, and the realization of our luxurious dreams.
The allure of the sparkling Mediterranean beckons us, and we wade into the refreshing saltwater under the warm sun. Luxurious beach houses and majestic yachts surround us, one of which pulsates with a vibrant party atmosphere. A spontaneous invitation leads us onto the yacht, where we surrender our belongings, including our phones, and dive into a night of revelry. Water skiing, engaging in conversation with newfound rich acquaintances, and seamlessly transitioning from one yacht to another, our evening transforms into a quadruple yacht party – a dazzling and seemingly surreal experience.
As the night reaches its crescendo, we reluctantly depart, only to realize we've missed the last bus. A benevolent new friend offers to drive us to the train station, and on our way home, we make a pit stop for a quick but satisfying pizza. The entire adventure, with its blend of spontaneity, luxury, and unexpected connections, lingers in my memory as a night too good to be true.
Bucket list:
Attend a yacht party in the south of france
As the weeks unfold, we come together to celebrate Maya's birthday with a beach party at Sablettes. The Sciences Po community joins in, and even though I barely know these individuals, the intimacy of our small school transforms each encounter into a vital connection within my study abroad community. The sense of camaraderie grows stronger with every shared moment.
On the route between my house and the train station, a new art exhibit emerges. One night, after one of our beach town escapades, I slip on my headphones and wander through the exhibit. The experience becomes a canvas for my evolving artistic self and maturing global studies perspective.
Our adventures continue with paddleboarding at Bastion, where Dan and I share a board, engaging in profound discussions about the vastness of the world. Deep talks on the open blue ocean become a cherished ritual. Maya, Pao, and I indulge our mermaid dreams at La Pinese in Cap d’Ail, reading "A Picture of Dorian Gray" while sunbathing, momentarily forgetting the literary world as we live out our own narratives. We swim off the rocks into a cove, climbing into a cave that feels like a true mermaid haven.
The following day, we venture with others to Ventimiglia, Italy, for the Friday street market. It marks the occasion of my first European clothing purchase, a small but significant step in assimilating into the culture.
In another memorable outing, Ifa joins our trio for a visit to Castello di Doleceaqua, a quaint town in Italy. With Maya's mom at the wheel, we make a spontaneous stop at a street market en route, immersing ourselves in the charm of Italian trinkets and art. Upon reaching the river, we navigate through rocks, eventually discovering a secluded cove. In the midst of chatting, swimming, and thriving, our bond deepens against the backdrop of this picturesque Italian town.
Later that night, the vibrant streets of Nice, France, beckon us for an unforgettable escapade. Pregaming with a lively bunch of newfound friends, we board the train around 11 PM, en route to a night that promises to be etched in our memories.
Our first stop is an EDM club, guided by the recommendations of Kousai and Marius. The beats pulse through the venue, and after a whirlwind of dance and revelry, I realize that only a select few, including Maya, Dan, Kousai, Marius, and I, remain. The whereabouts of the others become a mystery until Pao directs us to a grassy area where our missing friends are gathered, creating an impromptu circle while singing along to a random guitarist. It feels like a slice of camp, wholesome and surreal.
Our night's grand finale awaits at High Club, a realm of pulsating music and dazzling lights, a sea of people moving to the rhythm. Pao drifts away for much of the night, leaving me initially nervous but eventually embracing the intention of growing independence that brought me abroad. Half the night unfolds in the company of my new Sciences Po friends, and the other half involves dancing with random guys around the bar.
As the dawn approaches, we remain immersed in the night out in Nice, knowing the trains have ceased operation until morning. Dan joins us around 3 AM, but by 5 AM, Maya is nowhere to be found. Panic sets in as we search for her through the dawn-lit streets. Finally reaching her on the beach, our elation is short-lived as she reveals being with the police. Our quest to find her becomes a winding journey, transforming my once carefree party mood into frustration. Eventually, around 7 AM, we locate her with security, a mix of relief, anger, and exhaustion clouding the atmosphere.
Maya and I reconcile on the train ride home, pouring our hearts out and salvaging our friendship from the brink. The incident becomes a turning point, a testament to the resilience of bonds forged in the crucible of shared experiences.
A few days later, Maya and I venture to Antibes, a town beyond Nice, where we immerse ourselves in the charm of the old town, window-shop, befriend local cats, and swim in the azure waters. Antibes becomes my favorite town, and Maya, my favorite person – a haven of familiarity in a foreign land.
Classes persist in their monotony, the language barrier, and a disappointing academic environment. The initial charm of my fellow students starts to fade, revealing a potpourri of gossip and close-mindedness. Yet, the allure of my town persists, a constant thread weaving through my days, whether before, during, or after class – gazing at the Mediterranean, the colorful old town, and the pearl of France.
Maya’s Guide to Mental Photography in Slow Living:
Capturing a Specific Moment:
Sight: To photograph a moment, take time to truly see your surroundings. Notice the details – the play of light and shadow, vibrant colors, and intricate textures.
Hearing: Pay attention to the sounds around you – the rustling of leaves, distant chatter, or the melody of birdsong. Engage with the auditory tapestry of your environment.
Smell: Breathe deeply and take in the scents of your surroundings. Whether it's the aroma of nature, food, or a loved one's fragrance, let each inhale become a conscious act.
Taste: Whether it's a home-cooked meal or a local delicacy, savor the flavors. Take your time to experience the nuances and textures.
Touch: Engage with the physical sensations around you. Run your fingers over different surfaces, whether it's the rough bark of a tree or the smoothness of a stone.
Intuition: Trust your gut. Slow living often involves tuning into your intuition. Pay attention to your instincts and the feelings you get in certain situations.
Recording a Specific Feeling:
Sight: Instead of rushing through life, imagine each scene as a photograph. Frame it mentally, focusing on composition and elements that evoke emotion.
Hearing: Associate specific sounds with memories. Close your eyes and recall the ambient noises of a moment, allowing them to transport you back in time.
Smell: Intentionally pair scents with memorable experiences. The olfactory sense is closely linked to memory, so a familiar scent can trigger vivid recollections.
Taste: Link specific tastes to moments in your life. This could be the first sip of coffee in the morning or the taste of a particular dish from a special occasion.
Touch: Remember how certain textures make you feel. Let the sensation of touch become a conduit for emotional connection to your experiences.
Intuition (Sixth Sense): Rather than focusing solely on the visual, try to capture the emotional essence of a moment. What feelings arise in you, and how can you encapsulate them in your mental photo?
To remember a specific moment, close your eyes; to remember a specific feeling, open your heart. Engage all your senses consciously, and let each experience become a timeless snapshot in the gallery of your memories.
chapter three
my visitors
As I sat in my sociology class, I couldn't resist checking my iMessage for updates from my hometown friends instead of sticking to WhatsApp. Just then, a ping from Lulu and Toni announced their arrival in Nice, instantly bringing back memories of who I've grown into—a mix of excitement and weariness, yet eagerly anticipating the adventures ahead. On my way home, Maya joined me, and as we entered our favorite hangout spot (my house), we uncorked a bottle of wine to unwind. Pouring us each a glass, I regaled Maya with stories of my friends from my home university, painting a picture of their personalities and quirks. Suddenly, my phone rang again—my friends had arrived downstairs, and I dashed to help them with their luggage.
Welcoming them in, I poured everyone a glass of wine, savoring their lively travel tales. We sat with Maya, chatting and catching up for a while. Eventually, we decided to explore the bar strip along the beach, where we met up with Dan, Marius, and Dareen for refreshing Aperol spritzes. The hours flew by as we delved into conversations about Philadelphia from our vantage point in France. I found joy in being an observer of gossip from home without being at the center of it all—a delightful evening filled with laughter, reminiscences, and the excitement of shared experiences.
After enjoying a few drinks, we strolled along the beach before heading back home. Maya had plans to hit the club that night, but upon reaching her place, exhaustion took over, and she drifted into a deep sleep for the entire night. Meanwhile, Toni and Lulu, feeling the effects of jet lag, opted to stay in. We indulged in light conversation, took refreshing showers, and settled into a relaxed evening.
Later, we decided to try out a new dinner spot with Marius, Dan, and Dareen. As we delved into more wine and placed our food orders, I couldn't help but chuckle at the name of the Napolean pizza on the menu. However, my laughter quickly faded when I took a bite—it was surprisingly terrible, overly salty, and had an unpleasant fishy taste.
Curious about Lulu’s whereabouts, I popped into the restaurant to check on Lulu, only to discover her engaged in what she thought were complimentary shots with the chefs. To our dismay, she was being charged for each one, and her playful banter was misconstrued as flirtation, leading to an unexpected bill. Despite our attempts to reason with the staff, Lulu had to settle the tab. I ended up taking the remnants of my unappetizing pizza home, while our small town bore witness to this comically chaotic series of events.
The next morning greeted me with the sight of my friends peacefully asleep. Anticipating their regret at sleeping through the day, I gently roused them to see if they still wanted to explore the Friday market in Ventimiglia. Their interest sparked, we all prepared for a day of adventure. Boarding the train, we immersed ourselves in the lively market atmosphere, with Lulu and Toni hunting for souvenirs while I reveled in the joy of discovery, feeling as if I were simultaneously in my hometown and in a new, exotic place.
Our paths crossed with other exchange students on the lawn, where we gathered and eventually made our way to an Italian beach. The day unfolded in a blissful haze of drinks, swimming, and heartfelt conversations. Witnessing my diverse group of friends from different parts of my life bonding seamlessly brought me immense happiness. Lulu and I even started a collection of sea glass that day, a newfound hobby that continued to enchant me as I gathered souvenirs from each place I visited.
As the sun began its descent, we headed to dinner, opting for Italian cuisine that proved to be a vast improvement from the previous day's culinary misadventure. The night stretched before us, brimming with promise and the contentment of shared experiences, reminding me of the beauty of friendship and the joys of exploration.
Later, as we boarded the train back, an unexpected delay halted our journey just before reaching our stop. It was then that I learned a troubling truth—that every night at this border between France and Italy, the police would board the train and demand passports from anyone of color. Those unable to produce their documents faced the harsh consequence of being forcibly removed from the train. This discriminatory practice stemmed from the migration route, where individuals from Africa entered Italy and then traversed through France.
In the midst of this unsettling situation, I engaged in profound discussions with my international friends about their encounters with racism. We delved into the commonalities among our cultures, recognizing that despite apparent differences, we shared similar struggles and experiences. It struck me that while countries like Australia and Canada often seem to be portrayed as more tolerant and welcoming compared to the United States, they too grapple with deep-seated racism and social issues that often go unaddressed due to the overshadowing presence of the U.S. in global discourse.
The following day, we eagerly boarded the train bound for Cap d'Ail. Our time there was pure bliss, as we lounged on the rocks, lost ourselves in books, frolicked in the water, and I rediscovered my inner mermaid. Jumping off the rocks into the refreshing sea became a highlight of our sun-soaked day. After a relaxing nap upon returning home, the night beckoned us to venture into Nice for a thrilling clubbing escapade. With girl pop tunes blaring in the background, we transformed ourselves with stylish outfits and carefully applied makeup, gearing up for an unforgettable evening. By 11 PM, we set out on foot to catch the final train, marking the beginning of our nocturnal adventure.
En route, we unexpectedly encountered Dareen, Dan, and their friends on the train, who were initially planning a night of jazz bar hopping. Spontaneously, we decided to merge our plans and head together to the High Club. Navigating the familiar streets of Nice, memories of past outings with friends flooded my mind, adding to the excitement of the night ahead. Despite a few pit stops, we eventually arrived at the club, ready to dive into a night of revelry.
Inside the High Club, the atmosphere was electric, punctuated by the peculiar presence of a cigarette room. I found myself effortlessly making new acquaintances, immersed in the vibrant energy of the venue. However, amidst the pulsating beats and lively conversations, tensions simmered among our group, leading to a heated argument and subsequent separation.
The night took an unexpected turn as chaos ensued, with misunderstandings and heightened emotions fueling the turmoil. Nevertheless, amidst the challenges, our friendship emerged stronger, fortified by overcoming the adversities together. I couldn't help but notice the aggressive behavior of some French men and bouncers, who were overly intrusive and physical, causing discomfort and distress.
As the night wound down, our group found ourselves in a random Uber alongside two girls from my school. Lulu's choice of the Wonderwall remix on repeat filled the air, contrasting with the tense atmosphere inside the vehicle. While Lulu stared ahead with determination, I found myself and Toni drifting into moments of dissociation, occasionally bopping my head to the music, while the two random girls indulged in a spirited rendition of the song, encapsulating the hilariously chaotic journey home.
The next day greeted us with relentless rain, threatening to dampen our plans for the week. In a region known for its sunny skies along the Mediterranean, this unexpected downpour seemed almost surreal. Undeterred, we resolved to turn the rainy day into an opportunity for a cozy indoor activity.
After researching options, we dismissed the idea of visiting museums, feeling that my friends’ trip to the South of France was about more than traditional tourist attractions. Instead, we reached out to Dareen, who graciously dropped off art supplies, inspiring us to spend the day painting with the gentle pitter-patter of rain as our soundtrack. Lulu and I captured the view outside our window on canvas, while Toni lost herself in the pages of a captivating book. We indulged in movies, enjoying the luxury of a leisurely day to combat lingering jet lag.
As the day waned and the sun began its descent, our thoughts turned to dinner. We embarked on a culinary adventure, venturing out to try Chinese cuisine that had piqued our curiosity. Bringing back our delicious finds, we settled in to watch "How to Get Away with Murder," relishing the warmth and comfort of good food and great company.
The night wasn't over yet, as we treated ourselves to a memorable dinner at Il Capriccio, savoring delectable pasta dishes while admiring the sight of someone enjoying Quatre Fromages, the French rendition of mac and cheese. Despite the rain's attempt to disrupt our plans, it turned out to be a much-needed day of relaxation and bonding, culminating in satisfying meals and shared laughter, making it a perfect, rejuvenating night.
The following day, our plan was to head to Nice by train. We managed to catch the train, but there was a hiccup with Toni and Lulu forgetting to purchase their tickets in time. This mishap turned into a nerve-wracking experience when the conductor asked for our tickets for the first time ever. I confidently showed my train pass and shared it with my friends, who presented a screenshot of the same pass. However, the conductor insisted on seeing a different email as proof, and my friends feigned connectivity issues with their Wi-Fi.
I knew that traveling without a ticket could result in hefty fines, so I felt a sense of relief knowing my pass was valid. Unfortunately, the same couldn't be said for my friends. Sensing trouble, we decided to disembark at Monaco, hoping to avoid further scrutiny. To our dismay, the conductor followed us and engaged the Monaco train workers in a heated exchange that lasted about 20 minutes. The workers' condescending tone and the snooty atmosphere of Monaco made it one of my most unpleasant French encounters, surpassing even my future experiences in Paris.
Despite my friend's efforts to diffuse the situation and my growing frustration with the conversation, I inadvertently admitted that they were using my identity when questioned by one of the workers. This admission led to me being singled out as the problem, and instead of just my friends paying fines, I had to pay as well. Each of us ended up shelling out fifty euros, leaving us stranded in Monaco with no desire to risk taking the train again.
What added to the irony of the situation was that after that incident, my friends made sure to buy their tickets every time we traveled by train, yet we were never approached by conductors to check our tickets again. It was a costly lesson learned, but it taught us the importance of always having valid tickets and being prepared for unexpected challenges during travel.
Once we arrived in Monaco, we strolled along the waterfront, drawn by the allure of a sushi place. While initially aiming for the sushi spot Bella Hadid had praised, we settled for a random one, unsure if it was the famed one. Nevertheless, we made the most of our time in Monaco, despite the unexpected hits to our bank accounts. We meandered through the streets, taking in the sights and sounds, determined to enjoy the experience.
After exploring the Monaco castle and soaking in the scenic views, we hopped on a bus that offered a budget-friendly tour of the entire city. It was a fantastic way to see the sights without breaking the bank. As we circled around Monaco, we marveled at its beauty and grandeur, capturing moments that would stay with us long after the trip.
As the day wound down, we collectively agreed it was time to head back. Disembarking at the train station bus stop, we made our way to the train platform, where Toni and Lulu made sure to purchase their tickets this time. Still craving the comfort of mac and cheese, we decided to whip up a homemade batch once we returned home, adding a cozy touch to the end of our adventurous day in Monaco.
Upon returning to Menton, we made a quick stop at Carrefour to pick up the necessary ingredients for our homemade quatre fromages and noodles. Back at home, we poured ourselves some wine, fired up the stove, and embarked on a culinary adventure. The kitchen filled with the aroma of melting cheeses as we cooked and laughed together, creating a delicious meal that we savored while watching movies and simply enjoying each other's company. It was a delightful evening, and with each passing moment, I grew more excited about the prospect of living with these wonderful girls once we returned to Philadelphia.
The following day, with plans originally set for Nice, we opted to switch things up since I frequented Nice often. It made more sense for Lulu and Toni to explore Nice while I attended my classes. So, we set our sights on Antibes, one of my favorite spots, located just 20 minutes past Nice with an hour-long train ride.
Boarding the train once again, we found ourselves magically transported to Antibes. Eager to make the most of our day, we first stopped to grab some food and essentials, including wine, snacks, and even an inflatable tube for the beach. Arriving at the beach, we laid out our towels and soaked in the sun, alternating between reading, sunbathing, and cooling off in the inviting waters. My choice of a kids' inflatable tube added a whimsical touch to our beach adventures, much to everyone's amusement.
While Lulu and Toni ventured out to explore the buoy in the water, I contentedly read my book while perched on the small tube, occasionally collecting more sea glass as a souvenir of our time by the sea. Eventually, our beach day evolved into a leisurely shopping spree, as we meandered through charming boutiques nestled in the quaint, family-owned shops of Antibes. The town's unique blend of serene alleyways and bustling central areas left us enchanted.
As Lulu indulged in purchasing pottery crafted right before our eyes, I couldn't resist the allure of a nearby restaurant and bar offering tantalizing charcuterie boards. Starving after a day of sun and sea, I convinced Lulu and Toni to join me for a delightful feast of beer, cheese, meats, and mouthwatering mozzarella sticks. It was a perfect culmination to a wonderful day, filled with laughter, good food, and cherished memories. Heading home, our hearts were full, warmed by the joy of shared experiences and the beauty of Antibes.
The next day, my friends leisurely explored the charming streets of Menton, soaking in the beauty of our temporary home. As evening descended and my classes concluded, we gathered for one last night together, reminiscing about our adventures, laughing, and cherishing the bond we had formed. Their presence had brought such joy and warmth to my life, and I felt incredibly grateful for their friendship.
With their departure marking the end of this chapter, I felt a sense of temporary closure for Philadelphia. It was time to embrace my story, to take ownership of my journey, and to step into a new phase filled with growth, happiness, and the exhilarating sense of pure freedom. The experiences shared with my friends had enriched my life and prepared me for the adventures that lay ahead.